I am sooo grateful for my sacred soul mate Andre, he shows me parts of myself that I need to look at in order to evolve. With his love & compassion and divine guidance I am experiencing parts of my journey that are difficult but necessary. It is with much unconditional love and gratitude for him that I have embarked on this journey for myself and with him by my side. Although our journey at times is difficult I would rather endure with him then anyone else. This does not go without recognizing other guides along my paths that I have love and gratitude for as well. But today is about recognizing and giving great appreciation to my sacred soul mate and being in gratitude for our connection. With that being said I have placed parts of an article I read that seriously hit home for me and reminded me of this beautiful journey of life we have all joined in together.
When you can take a step back and look at your journey, every step of the way, how you have been guided and everything that has occurred in your life, what you have learned from those experiences, what you have learned from those relationships, you can see how beautiful every step is.
You have come together at that point in time, choosing to be together for certain reasons that may not be to your conscious awareness but on a soul level, you are both choosing to be together for growth, healing and many other reasons. Sometimes these relationships last a short time or they could last longer but the impact is still important for your journey. This other person is going to bring these things into your awareness and how you handle it, is what is most important. The ego has an opportunity here to come in when you are confronted with challenges. You can recognize the ego and it can be a guide on your journey, to help you to be aware of something that you want to release or perception that you may want to change.
Trust in the divine guidance and order of things, the soul contracts that you have made with those that you encounter. Remember to not let fear send you into a reactive state, take a moment to process what your feeling and feel where that fear is really coming from. A reactive state can make a difficult situation even worse. Where if you choose to resign from the reactive and sit in the fear, it can take you to a place of healing for all parties involved!
(Parts are taken from an article on evolvethe.com)
Love & Light,
Heather~
This last week I have felt a hugh shift coming in my life~
Things have been at best~ trying :( , with being ill and my car getting stolen from the front of my home, among some old patterns that no longer serve my greater good coming up,
yesterday I found myself in a place of ... how can this be happening? Oh I feel sick, I don't want to deal with all this UGHHHHHHH ect.... I felt myself telling a horror story about this wonderfully gruesome pity party we were going to have all day, YUCK!!! My soul sister reminded me that in those times to reflect on the beauty in life, take yourself away from that thought of "why is this happening, and all the other story's you may come up with " She reminded me of the everyday pieces of life like the bright green grass and being able to walk, to smile a at stranger ect.... With that I stepped outside and took a very deep breath and choose to look around.... and first thing I saw was really how beautifully green the grass was. I know to some this might sound quite silly but truly I found love and peace in it. It took me out of that ugly "toilet bowel"(thank you Jaymie for that metaphor, so very true! lol ) spiraling down in all that was going on, and what seemed to be wrong. To be able to just sit in that MOMENT, and appreciate the mundane items we all take for granted. With doing this the toilet came to an abrupt halt and I was no longer in the horror story I was setting up an invitation to in my head. I am content now in knowing that these tough times will pass. As I told my 17 year old yesterday, you can not change what has occurred only how you react and sit in it. Words I am choosing to listen to myself today. So for whatever your day may bring and whatever may come your way, chose to see that you can not change what is only choose how you feel about it. Where you go from here is up to you! should take my own advice sometimes LOL. Also, if you feel like your in the toilet bowl get off the toilet and change your surroundings!!! Love & Light, Heather~
Anger is not the answer...look for the lesson in every situation and handle it with LOVE. Sounds corny I know but very true! Choose to look within! Is Anger really a feeling you want to sit with?! Allowing the transformation of your thoughts to happen for the highest good! It's important to remember...especially when its so easy to turn to anger and then self pity. But neither of those feelings will help your situation or make it better. We are all going through allot of the same emotions just in different situations. I know for me when I get angry stepping away from that situation and going to a private space to look at it helps. Sitting in that space and asking myself the questions... Does this feeling get me to a place of peace? What can I do or say right now to make it a place of peace? Do I need to reflect on my own actions in this situation and why it has turned to anger? Allowing the situation to rest and revisit to look at outside my EGO. This helps get my barometer down to a place to work through it. To say and make decisions from a place that I can see the lesson and feel comfortable moving forward.
Love really is the answer to situations of anger. Love for yourself and the love of others. With love being the emphasis I really believe a place of peace is possible for everything. What do you do to handle a situation that has made you angry? How do you get yourself to a place of peace? Looking forward to hearing your thoughts! Have a peaceful day:) With love & light, Heather
Learning to let go... while still appreciating the special moments of the past??
Huh, how do you do this...??!!My feelings have always been once you become apart of my heart, then you always will be...
Sometimes not only is letting go difficult (at best) but a necessity to see things for how they really are and learning to grow from them! I am now at the point were I can never say never! Learning that all or some parts of my life will not always be. Old ways of relating are ending, as they no longer serve my growth. Moving forward in God's grace and trying to be appreciative and focused only on all the great memories that came from that relationship is the hard part.
Lately, I feel that God is placing my heart on a path to a higher level of consciousness. A path I see allot of us going up;) Maybe some over hills or through the deepest trenches of life others on a smaller level but needless to say a change is forthcoming! I thought I would start a blog about this because no matter how beautiful or no so beautiful your path may look at any given time, it is a journey we are all on!! Lets share our journey and embrace the greater good. I believe that with most of the media focusing on the negative around our everyday lives this could be a place of positive support for the shift we are all going through on every level. Have you had this experience above? Can you relate? Please share your experience (without all the details and names associated please) on how you were able to let go.... How did you move on and still be grateful for the good times without focusing on the now and the hurt that is associated with the "letting go"? How were you able to just~ Let Go~Looking forward to your thoughts...Until next time, take care... and never a moment for granted!Heather~
